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Dear Friends,
As the crisp air and twinkling lights envelop us, we’re immersed in the warmth and joy of the holiday season. In this Christmas/New Year issue of Caregiver magazine, we celebrate the love, kindness, and dedication that defines our community. We honor the selfless caregivers who embody the values of compassion, empathy, and generosity. Your unwavering commitment to caring for loved ones is a shining example of goodness.
This holiday season, I wish you and your loved ones peace, joy, and togetherness. For many, Christmas is a time to reunite with family and reflect on life’s true treasures. May we hold dear the time spent with our loved ones, honoring our faith, traditions, and family legacies. As guardians of our family’s heritage, let’s preserve and pass down the traditions that make our families unique. May we find comfort in cherished memories and create new ones for future generations.
This season offers a fresh start, an opportunity to refocus on living a life filled with meaning and purpose. With gratitude, I’m reminded of Oklahoma’s exceptional people, whose hearts are big and whose hospitality is abundant. May we nurture our relationships and welcome new friendships in the coming year.
Wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! May the message, meaning, and magnitude of this joyous season, as we celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ, transform the hearts and minds of all people with peace, love, wisdom, and goodwill.
Sincerely,
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Nana’s Christmas Sharing and Nana’s Closet offer support to kin raising related children. A crisis situation can and often does come out of the blue without warning, creating circumstances of immediate, urgent need. The needs may range from beds, cribs, linens, bedding, diapers, toys, shoes, and clothing for the children. Nana’s Christmas Sharing (NCS) and Nana’s Closet (NC) are there to fill the gap.
Christmas is not just a day in December. Christmas is a feeling and desire to embrace our families and friends, a time for sharing kindness and joy. What a world we would have if we lived every day as if it was Christmas. You will find that feeling at Nana’s Christmas Sharing any day of the year. The organization’s mission is to empower and inspire kin raising loved ones and is embodied in the leadership and volunteers. The joy of giving is alive and well at Nana’s Christmas Sharing.
Families are offered the opportunity to select much-needed items at no cost. They shop in the NC boutique for clothing, toys, shoes, and other critical needs. The children may not understand what is happening to their world. But they understand
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kindness and love, which is dispensed in ample supply while they shop for just the right shirt or pair of shoes. Selecting the items they want in their favorite color empowers the children and gives them a feeling of control, being a part of the process. This in no way negates their circumstances, but it gives them some “power” over their lives, which seem to be spinning out of control. Being treated with dignity and respect is important to everyone. Leela and Lamont Baker, founders of NC and NCS, shower each child with love, kindness and respect. This gives dignity to what could be a humiliating experience.
Each year, NCS hosts Christmas parties for families who apply for Christmas assistance. Donors select a boy or girl by age and provide at least two of the three requested gifts on the wish list. The donors then bring wrapped and labeled gifts to the party, where they are placed in a Santa bag tagged for each child and given to the family. Santa is there to get any last-minute requests noted in his ledger. Santa’s volunteer helpers serve cocoa and cookies to attendees while other volunteers load gifts into vehicles. It is a time of joy, laughter, and fun. One volunteer stated, “Seeing the joy and excitement as the children take home a bag of gifts selected especially for them is why I select a child each year and volunteer to help at the Christmas party. I love the feeling of joy surrounding this event.”
Every family has a story. That story changes lives in an instant. A car wreck takes the lives of both parents, leaving three young children. The children’s eldest sibling, a third-year college student, becomes their guardian. Grandparents are called to the hospital by DHS to take custody of a newborn who is addicted and in NICU or an abused child being treated in the
emergency room. A child is abandoned, and the aunt/ uncle steps up and fills the gap. Two children are with their parent when the parent is arrested, and the only relative is a twenty-something cousin who comes forward and cares for the children. These are only a few examples of cases of kin-raising kin. For these families, the most immediate needs are clothing, shoes, and coats, as they usually leave their circumstances with only the clothes they are wearing. Nana’s Christmas Sharing provides for these needs but goes beyond just filling the need. They offer a shoulder to lean on, referrals to other agencies or non-profit organizations, support group information, and the most critical assistance, love and kindness. Hugs are freely dispensed.
The Stewarts are grandparents raising a grandchild. Both are in their 60s, have significant health issues, and live on Social Security and his income from a part-time job. For the past five years, they have been raising a grandson, Isaiah, who is six years old.
The Stewarts are trying to support a bond between the child and the parents. This is difficult. The father, their youngest son, and Isaiah’s mother are drug and alcohol addicted The father is in rehab again. While the grandparents attempt to stay in contact and foster the parental connection, it often is counterproductive as Isaiah suffers night terrors. Contact with his parents can be a trigger. Can you imagine the pain these grandparents go through and the difficult decision to encourage the bond between child and parent? They struggle every visit, torn between Isaiah’s need to see his parents and his night terrors. Praying every day they make the right decisions.
Isaiah hasn’t stopped talking about NC and how he got to shop for things he wanted. He was so excited that Leela Baker opened the store just for him and helped him make selections, which included a muchloved bicycle.
Grandmother Sanchez cares for five grandchildren. Her daughter goes from one abusive relationship to the next, eventually putting all of her children at risk. Ms. Sanchez began her journey of care in 2013 when James was nine months old and suffered a fractured skull at the hands of his father. In 2020, six-year-old Bryan and two-year-old Gabriella joined them after being beaten by their father. In 2021, three-year-old Miguel and one-
year-old Alayah sustained extensive injuries at the hands of their father. It has been a difficult road for the children and their grandmother. She lost her home and spent all her savings as she protected the children. She would willingly make the sacrifices again.
Nana’s Closet and Nana’s Christmas Sharing have been there for this family at every crisis point. Ms. Sanchez praises Leela Baker’s calm, reassuring, and loving nature. She is grateful for all the organization has done for her family. When she got each child, a trip to Nana’s helped with clothing, school supplies, and toys. The children have also been gifted at Christmas and enjoyed the hot cocoa and cookies at the party. Again, Christmas is of the heart, not the calendar.
May 6, 2016, is the day Ms. Smith-Poole became the caregiver of three grandchildren. The State had removed the children from their home for gross neglect. The children were in foster care for a year while she fought to get custody. They were four, three, and one year old when she succeeded in gaining custody of the children. It was a struggle, fighting all the red tape, making every court date, meeting all the requirements, all the time worrying about the children, knowing they needed family and stability.
Ms. Smith-Poole says, “Leela and her team are a blessing to all who are raising family members. She is kind and loving, and she is our rock. I cannot imagine where we would be without Nana’s Closet and Nana’s Christmas Sharing to help.” Nana’s Closet helped when the children first arrived, preparing them for school and seasonal needs. The children were part of the Christmas gifting and loved the party.
Ms. Combs has been raising a grandson, Messiah, age 9, for seven years. On June 30, 2023, she received a call from her daughter. Three of her grandchildren had been taken from her daughter, and could she come to get them. They had been living in a car for eight months. Her daughter suffers from substance abuse. Ms. Combs took the children home, where she and two teenage daughters welcomed Loreina, age 2 1/2; Efrain, age 18 months; and Syllvia, 9 months. The children’s mother became so abusive and violent toward her mother Ms. Combs had to get a VPO.
Nana’s Closet came to the rescue, providing the children with clothing, shoes, and toys. Through tears of joy and appreciation, Ms. Combs told of the joy she received watching the little ones play with toys and how they kept looking and touching their clothes. Through referrals from Nana’s Closet, they were able to get beds for the children. The children would drag a blanket from the bed and sleep on the floor. It took some time to teach them to sleep in the beds.
The family has adjusted. The children are happy, smiling, and loving. NCS provided Christmas in July for this family.
These and other stories have common factors: Nana’s Closet and Nana’s Christmas Sharing.
Both are critical to quality daily living; gifting is provided with love and respect; there is healing, evidenced in the children’s laughter.
Christmas is not just a date in December. The spirit and joy of Christmas should be alive and in our daily lives. We are not promised tomorrow or even the next minute. Celebrate, hold your loved ones close, be kind, and be that “go-to” person who brings joy to others.
Nana’s Closet and Nana’s Christmas Sharing bring the wonder, excitement, and joy of Christmas to children in great need 365 days a year. Leela and Lamont Baker are grandparents raising a grandchild. They have experienced the emotions and fear. They understand and stand in the gap with kin raising family.
For information on donating or volunteering, Contact Nana’s Christmas Sharing, PO Box 891885, Oklahoma City, OK 73189. Call 405-735-7022 or email NanasChristmasSharing@yahoo.com.
Nana’s Christmas Sharing is a 501c3 Nonprofit Organization.
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All too often, seniors view the move to assisted living as ‘the final days’ or a loss of freedom and independence’. In this same aspect, a senior's family member may feel a sense of guilt for needing the relief a community move could offer. Retirement living in any form is full of uncertainty and questions. However, knowing the benefits may change this perception.
Choosing assisted living before a decline in health occurs offers you the opportunity to be selective, to take your time in transition, and to maintain your independence. Assisted Living offers benefits that may be harder to maintain at home, such as an active social life, access to care when needed, fewer chores or home maintenance concerns, and most of all, peace of mind in knowing you had the opportunity to find a place you can call home.
Our names may be new but the unwavering commitment to providing exceptional personalized care services for seniors in our local Oklahoma City area remains firmly intact.
The philosophy of our local senior living communities centers on establishing vibrant, affordable care that enables residents to lead fulfilling lives. By offering health and wellness programs, educational opportunities, social events, and outings, we foster an environment where residents are encouraged to be active and engaged in their daily lives.
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As winter approaches, the risk of fire hazards increases significantly. Cold temperatures, holiday decorations, and heating systems can create a perfect storm for fires to start. According to the National Fire Protection Association (NFPA), heating equipment is the leading cause of home fires during winter, and adults 65 and older are more than twice as likely to die in a home fire than the general population.
Seniors face increased risks due to age-related vulnerabilities, such as decreased mobility, hearing or vision loss, and cognitive impairment. Fire hazards specific to seniors include cooking-related fires, electrical fires, heating equipment fires, and candle fires. Cooking-related fires are common, especially when seniors experience cognitive decline or physical limitations.
To reduce the risk of winter fires, it’s essential to maintain your heating system annually. Keep space heaters at least
three feet away from flammable materials, and never leave them unattended. When using holiday decorations, inspect lights and cords for damage, avoid overloading outlets, and turn off lights when not in use.
In the kitchen, stay attentive while cooking, keep towels and cloth away from heat sources, and clean up clutter to reduce fire hazards. Avoid overloading outlets, keep cords organized, and use surge protectors to prevent electrical fires.
Ensure smoke alarms are installed and functioning correctly on every level of your home and inside sleeping areas.
Install carbon monoxide detectors near sleeping areas. Keep fire extinguishers on each level and know how to use them.
Create a fire escape plan and practice it regularly. For seniors, it is crucial to choose space heaters with automatic shut-off and keep them three feet from flammables.
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Avoid overloading outlets, and never leave cooking or candles unattended. Seniors and everyone can significantly reduce the risk of winter fires by taking these precautions.
Older homes may have outdated electrical systems, increasing the risk of electrical fires. Improperly maintained heating systems, chimneys, and fireplaces also pose significant risks. Seniors using candles for ambiance or light should never leave burning candles unattended.
By understanding these fire hazards and taking proactive measures, seniors can stay safe and warm this winter.
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I’ve been in a program called Toastmasters for 6 years. It is a communication and leadership training organization. Weekly, I meet with fellow Toastmasters in my club, and we give speeches and feedback. The most significant thing people deal with is what to do with their hands. Some people wring their hands, others flail them around (like I do), and some have used them effectively to communicate.
Individuals with dementia do not always know what to do with their hands when they become agitated. They may pull at bedding or clothes, rub them together, or twist their fingers. Older people may also start putting objects into their mouths. Why does it matter if they fidget? Many times, people with dementia cannot walk around as well, so they fidget with their hands as a sign of discomfort or anxiety.
There are a variety of gadgets that you can purchase or design that help people with dementia do something with their hands and hopefully calm their anxiety. Always choose safe activities for your loved one and match them with their cognition level.
For instance, putting together puzzles is a stimulating activity. Some individuals can do a 100-piece puzzle, while others may do a 24-piece one. Many times, these puzzles are made for small children. I usually like to pick designs that involve animals versus designs with cartoons or childhood characters. Some puzzles involve wooden shapes that you fit into different designs. The pieces must be big enough or be used by someone who would not put them in their mouth.
It is okay to set up activities that they were once involved in. Some people will fill a purse with money and an expired credit card and let them dig into that. Many older adults enjoy folding laundry, which is one of the easiest activities. It allows them to fold small towels and wash clothes. If they like this activity, when they are done, take it away, bring it back, and let them fold again. Take some crumpled tissue paper, have them straighten them out, and stack them.
A popular item online is fidget blankets, which you can make yourself. A fidget blanket usually has different textures of material, buttons, zippers, and fringes to pull on. Ensure these items are on securely, as you don’t want a button to come off, which could pose a choking hazard if the person puts the object in their mouth.
I have found many individuals with dementia enjoy coloring. Pick books that work at their level. Some will enjoy colored pencils, others crayons, and maybe safe magic markers. This might also be a time to make new memories. It is easier than ever to take pictures and let them put them in a photo album. Or go through
some older family photos and give them options for displaying them. If they can go on a nature walk, let them make a scrapbook of items they have found. Take or find pictures online of some of their favorite places and make matching pictures.
Exercise is always beneficial. It can include going for a walk. If they do not like to leave the house or the weather is bad, put on some music from a playlist and do some simple dancing or aerobics. Baking can be an enjoyable activity that assists an older person in working on their hand strength.
Many times, we do not think about using a person’s senses. For instance, let them assist with arranging flowers. Let individuals experience different fragrances through candles or safe essential oils. If they have pets or a friend with pets, let the older person stroke the pets. You can bring different materials to allow individuals to stroke them, like flannel, silk, or fleece blankets. Provide them with hand muffs to put their hands in with fidget items.
Remember always to find activities that bring enjoyment. If a person becomes frustrated, try a different activity or the same one at a different time. Most dementia clients need more sleep, so factor that into your day.
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There is a St. Nicholas. Born in the fourth century A. D. in Patara (Turkey) to wealthy parents, when Nicholas’ parents died from an epidemic, Nicholas was raised by his uncle, the Archbishop of Myra. Nicholas was made a priest by his uncle; he gave all the money he had to the poor and went to Palestine.
When he returned to Myra, the legend is that the Archbishop of the seaport town had just died. No one wanted the job, and the local clergy decided that the first priest entering the church on the following morning would be made bishop. The first priest to walk through the door was Nicholas.
would be forced to sell a daughter into prostitution or slavery to pay for the marriage of their other daughters. To save the noblemen’s daughters, Nicholas tossed bags of gold coins over fences, which were caught in the laundry, or the bags of gold were tossed down chimneys and caught in stockings left to dry by the fire embers. That’s why children hang their stockings with care, to catch the gifts from St. Nicholas. This act of charity helped Nicholas become the patron saint of girls without a dowry.
St. Nicholas became the patron saint of sailors and travelers. On a voyage in the Holy Land, he is credited with calming a storm and saving the boat and all aboard.
The story is told that Nicholas found a case containing the bodies of three children and, after making the sign of the cross, brought the children back to life. This story is part of the reason Nicholas is the patron saint of small children.
During those times, noblemen who lost their savings
On St. Nicholas Feast Day, December 6, little presents and gold chocolate coins are left in the shoes of children placed by the door. While we bask in the glow of God’s greatest gift this Christmas, let’s remember those who lived as Christ did, like St. Nicholas. Yes, there is a St. Nicholas. He lived more than 1600 years ago and still lives within each of us. Whenever we think of Santa Claus, let’s remember the legend of a jolly old elf in a red suit giving presents, which is the lasting legacy of a real person who did real things for real people.
Merry Christmas and God bless us, everyone.
StNicholas’ remains are buried in the crypt of the Basilica di San Nicola in Bari, Italy. His remains were temporarily removed when the crypt was repaired during the 1950s. At the Vatican’s request, anatomy professor Luigi Martino from the University of Bari took thousands of minutely detailed measurements and x-ray photographs of the skull and other bones.
Professor of forensic pathology at the University of Bari, Francesco Introna, knew advancements in diagnostic technique could yield much more from the 1950s data. In 2004, he engaged expert facial anthropologist Caroline Wilkinson at the University of Manchester in England to construct a model of the saint’s head from the earlier measurements.
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A Timeless Celebration: Bari’s Festive Tribute to St. Nicholas As Christmas fills the air, the Italian city of Bari comes alive with a unique and captivating tradition. The Bari procession of St. Nicholas, held on December 6, is a heartwarming celebration that honors the city’s beloved patron saint. With its rich history dating back to 1087, this festive event features a historic procession, solemn mass, and joyful festivities.
As night falls, the narrow streets of Bari’s old town sparkle with twinkling lights while locals and visitors alike gather to pay homage to St. Nicholas, the bringer of gifts and protector of children. In the warm glow of this ancient celebration, the spirit of the season shines bright, connecting generations past and present.
Bari, procession of St. Nicholas
The holiday season is a time of togetherness and reflection, and often, it’s when families realize that mom or dad may need more help to live safely and independently at home. While the thought of moving during the holidays can feel overwhelming, it’s also the perfect time to transition into a supportive community like The Gardens at Quail Springs.
At The Gardens, we understand the importance of maintaining independence and dignity while ensuring safety and support. Moving into our community doesn’t mean losing independence—it means gaining a helping hand in a safe, caring environment. With personalized assistance, vibrant social opportunities and comprehensive on-site healthcare services, our residents thrive in a place where they are proud to call home.
Let us help you make this transition seamless. Call today to schedule a tour and see firsthand how we can provide a smooth and supportive move into our community, even during the holidays.
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What I remember most about meeting Ed and Connie Beesley as they disembarked from the specially equipped van was their laughter and smiles. Connie told me one of her happiest times was dancing with Ed when he got the wheelchair that transformed and allowed Ed to “stand up.” This couple has been together for over 58 years and still shares that special smile. Eddie and Connie are great examples of love growing deeper and stronger.
Eddie Beesley was 17 years old and two weeks from graduation when he enlisted in the Marines. On June 6, 1963, Ed arrived in San Diego, California. He was excited and very proud to be a Marine. He was a dashing soldier in his dress uniform. Fast-forward to Vietnam, August 31, 1965, Ed was on point when he stepped on a land mine.
He lost both legs, was in pain beyond description, and he knew he was dying. As the realization hit him, he tried to remember the 23rd Psalm and pray. Words failed him. All he could think was, “I don’t want to die here.” The alternative was to fight - fight like a Marine - gut-check time. “Suck it up, MARINE!” was all he could think as he floated in and out of consciousness on waves of pain.
His American Legion duties include Scouting Chairman for the State of Oklahoma and trustee for American Legion Post 111 in Edmond. Wyatt is a past commander of Post 111. He is a member of the Oklahoma City Chapter of the Sons of the American Revolution and serves as Scouting Chairman for that organization.
Ken is authorized by the State Commander for the American Legion as a coordinator for the Legion’s “Veterans in Schools” project. This project brings Veterans into the schools and talks to the students about patriotism and duty to God and Country. Veterans and parents are invited to attend the event. The Veterans are recognized and thanked for their service. Honoring the parents of the students makes a lasting impression on the students.
Eddie was moved from the base hospital three days later and loaded on a helicopter headed to Da Nang. Minutes later, the helicopter crashed. They waited for a rescue helicopter and proceeded to Da Nang, where he underwent several surgeries. Two weeks later, he went to the Philippines to Clark Air Force Base for more surgeries. He left Clark on a twenty-seven-hour flight to Travis Air Force Base and Oak Knoll military hospital in Oakland, California, his home for the next eight and a half months. As the months passed, Eddie realized that he would not be able to stay in the Marines. He had no idea what to do. Depression and defiance set in and took over his life. A doctor prescribed four ounces of bourbon each night. The nurses bought him some decent bourbon, and he kept it on his table. He drank more and more as depression increased.
One day, two young women came to visit another soldier. As fate would have it, he was invited to a weekend at the home of one of the young ladies, Connie. It was love. They married six months later, and he was determined to stand at the altar with his bride.
The next few years were filled with learning experiences and realizing the world did not accommodate those with disabilities. He began college in Edmond.
They built a home and fostered two boys from the Baptist Boys Ranch. Eddie dropped out of college after two years, pastored a church in Enid, then a church in Guthrie, and they adopted a little girl and a little boy. Two ye Guthrie ended when he took a job with the FAA in Oklahoma City. Connie and Eddie both went back to college and earned degrees. Eddie did some graduate work in the education field. He then took a position as a prosthetic clerk at the VA Hospital.
Until the 1990 Americans With Disabilities Act required businesses to make accommodations for those using a wheelchair, Eddie was forced to use his prosthetics. He had to learn to adjust his attitude and expectations. As he lost what he described as his “macho attitude,” he used his chair more and more. This included being a part of a wheelchair basketball team. The team was very successful and had an impressive win/loss record. He also competed in pentathlons in Arkansas, Kansas, and Texas.
After parting with a business partner, Eddie started his own business, providing driving and transportation equipment for individuals with disabilities. When revision after revision of his application for an SBA loan was rejected, he hired a CPA to assist in completing the application. He traveled from Edmond to the Murrah Building in Oklahoma City, about 15 miles, in his wheelchair. Connie called a reporter who got some coverage started. The story went national, and, you guessed it, the SBA loan was approved. This brought to light that the laws did not include veterans of the Vietnam War. This has been rectified due to the media coverage of Eddie's journey to submit his SBA loan application and the tenacious spirit of proponents of benefits for veterans.
Eddie has spent his life helping others. He has served on many committees addressing the lack of accessibility for the handicapped and has been instrumental in passing laws benefiting those with special needs. He talks with people who have lost limbs or mobility, helping them adjust to life. He shares his journey with individuals at conferences, workshops, and other gatherings.
Eddie is the recipient of the Purple Heart, Good Conduct Medal, National Defense Medal, Vietnam Service Medal, and Vietnamese Presidential
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I never knew what I wanted to do in life. I knew that I loved helping people. When I got hired with ComeforCare, I realized this is something I'd love to do the rest of my life to help people bring smiles to their faces and listen to their stories. I realized this career is for me and can't wait to grow and blossom through the years I hope to learn from my experiences and others along the way I hope to further my career to help people along the way.
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Neil and I took our dream honeymoon this year. We had married in 2022, in the middle of my breast cancer treatments, delaying our honeymoon. After watching countless YouTube videos, we chose AmaWaterways as our preferred cruising company for a European river cruise. With the help of our travel advisor, Alysha Hoisington from All in Traveling in Edmond, Oklahoma, we planned the perfect vacation. Our top tip for anyone planning a river cruise would be to use a travel agent. There are many components involved in booking such a trip. While on the cruise, we discovered that those who didn’t use an agent often missed out on optional add-ons and experiences.
One of the most asked questions is what to pack. The AmaWaterways ships are elegant, but the dress code is casual and comfortable. The only evening you’ll need to dress up is dinner at the Chef’s Table. This is an experience that you shouldn’t miss. When you board your ship, reserve your spot for this special event.
A perk of choosing AmaWaterways for a river cruise is that all excursions are included in the price. Before embarking on our journey, we received an email with a list of available tours and three levels of excursions—gentle, regular, and more physically demanding according to fitness levels. Neil and I chose the regular options and found them spot-on . Our adventure began in Amsterdam, where our cruise manager, Nemanja Varajanin, welcomed us—his dedication to ensuring our flawless trip, from offering valuable advice to arranging a room upgrade. The upgrade even came with a personal butler. Neil and I didn’t know what to do with a butler, but he transformed our amazing trip into an unforgettable experience. After a few days in Amsterdam, we stepped onto the luxurious AmaMora and set sail on our Rhine River Cruise. We picked this voyage because of the promise of castles and wine tastings.
Every meal was a culinary delight. As we dined on the first night of our cruise, a friendly couple from Indiana asked to join us at our table. We quickly bonded over our love for travel and discovered that Neil had grown up close to their hometown. Our new friends Jim and Cindy joined us on numerous excursions, making our cruise even more unforgettable. With such a small group of only one hundred and sixty people, connecting and creating lasting memories with fellow travelers was effortless, and the intimate setting of a small group made us feel like we were part of a close-knit community.
Our journey began with a cruise along the picturesque Dutch Waterways, leading us towards the River Rhine and into Germany. Our ship docked in Cologne, Germany, where Jim and Cindy joined us for a guided walking tour, which was a fascinating journey through the city’s history and culture. Of course, no trip to Germany is complete without indulging in traditional local beer.
The following day, as the sun rose over the Rhine River, we gathered on the sundeck, where we saw breathtaking views of over thirty castles and castle ruins. In the afternoon, we found ourselves in the wine town of Rudesheim, sipping on glasses of crisp Riesling and basking in the beauty of our surroundings. It was indeed a day fit for royalty.
The next day was Strasbourg, France. It was easy to see why this city is hailed as one of Europe’s most alluring destinations. But then again, every stop on our European adventure was filled with charm and allure. On our final cruise day, we toured Lucerne, Switzerland, where we saw the iconic Lion’s Monument.
Upon returning to our ship, we were treated to an oldfashioned Ice Cream Party—the perfect way to end our journey on a sweet note.
The last few days of our journey took us to Lake Como in Italy, the most stunning destination ever. Our days were filled with authentic Italian pizza and laughter with our new friends. We will cherish the countless scoops of gelato we devoured together, making unforgettable memories in the most idyllic surroundings. We’re hoping to take another river cruise soon. We’ll call our river cruise friends Jim and Cindy to see if they want to join us on another unforgettable adventure.
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If a movie stars Tom Hanks, I know I will probably love the story. Tom Hanks and a talented cast take us through centuries of history. Based on Richard McGuire’s novel, the story seamlessly weaves together all the events that shaped humanity in one place. As if being a fly on the wall, we witness the lives of these characters unfold before us. At first, the disjointed snippets may seem like a series of TikTok videos, but soon, they converge into a gripping tale that will stay with you long after the credits roll. By the end, I felt connected to each character as if they were my family. The use of AI technology, with its lifelike animals, seamless scene transitions, and age progression for the actors, adds an impressive and intriguing touch to the film. This movie is the perfect holiday flick. Go to your favorite movie theater, and you will be glad you went there to see HERE.
Alternatively, a Trust offers another prudent method to manage your assets. It can potentially minimize estate taxes and bypass the public scrutiny that often accompanies probate court proceedings.
Neglecting to create a Will or Trust leaves your estate in the hands of state law, which may cause your belongings to be distributed contrary to your intentions.
A Will or Trust is an indispensable tool that ensures your hard-earned wealth and property are allocated precisely as you desire. Moreover, it spares your loved ones unnecessary conflicts, providing peace of mind.
When preparing to draft or update your estate plan, bring the following to your attorney:
1. Identification Documents. Provide legal identification, such as a driver’s license or passport, to verify your identity.
2. Current Will and Trust Documents. If you already have a Will or Trust, bring these documents. Your lawyer will review them to understand your current estate plan and make necessary or desired updates.
Few things are more important than your family’s well-being. A thoughtfully crafted Will or Trust acts as a dependable guide, ensuring your family’s future is secure.
Imagine a Will as your personal roadmap, meticulously outlining who will inherit your treasured assets. It also enables you to designate a guardian for your minor children, should the need arise.
3. List of Assets. Include all your assets, such as:
• Real estate properties
• Bank accounts (savings, checking)
• Investment accounts (stocks, bonds, mutual funds)
• Retirement accounts (401(k), IRA)
• Life insurance policies
• Business ownership interests
• Valuable personal property (art, jewelry, collectibles, automobiles of high value)
4. List of Debts. Document any outstanding debts, including mortgages, loans, credit card debts, and any other liabilities.
5. Beneficiary Information. Provide the names, addresses, and contact details of all beneficiaries. Include alternate beneficiaries in case your primary beneficiaries predecease you.
6. Guardianship Decisions. If you have minor children, include information about the proposed guardian in the event of your untimely passing.
7. Healthcare Directives and Powers of Attorney. Include any existing healthcare directives or powers of attorney. If you don’t have these, discuss your wishes with your lawyer.
8. Marital Status and Family Information. Provide information about your current marital status, previous marriages, divorce decrees, prenuptial agreements, and details about your children and other family members.
9. Business Agreements. If you own a business, include business agreements, such as buy-sell agreements, which might affect how your business interest is handled.
10. Tax Documents. Recent tax returns can provide a clear picture of your financial situation.
11. Charitable Giving Intentions. If you intend to leave a portion of your estate to charity, include details about the organizations and the nature of your bequests.
12. Special Instructions. Any specific instructions regarding the distribution of personal items, funeral arrangements, or other personal wishes.
13. List of Advisors. Contact information for your financial advisor, accountant, and any other professionals who assist with your financial affairs.
Think about giving back through legacy giving. Also known as planned giving, legacy giving is a charitable donation integrated into your financial or estate planning, ensuring that your philanthropic goals continue to make an impact beyond your lifetime. It offers a way to support the causes you care deeply about—whether through scholarships, religious organizations, or other meaningful initiatives—while potentially providing tax benefits to your estate. It is a profound act of generosity, like planting a tree whose shade will shelter and nurture others long after you are gone.
In closing, estate planning is not merely a process of dividing assets but a meaningful way to care for loved ones and preserve a legacy. Your estate plan ensures that your memory lives on long after you’ve departed, leaving a lasting imprint on those you cherish.
Joel G. Kintsel is an experienced attorney at Sinai Legal Solutions, PLLC. He can be reached at (405) 317-4411, via email at Joel@SinaiLegal. Solutions, or www.sinailegal.solutions.
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The following story is an account of a Nativity play presented on Dec. 19, 1965, by children of the First Presbyterian Church in Norman, Oklahoma. It originally appeared in The Norman Transcript on Dec. 20, 1965, and was first reprinted on Dec. 16, 1966. It has since been reprinted in newspapers all across the country. As publisher of Caregiver Magazine, it is my true honor and privilege to rekindle this local favorite. Thank you, Robbie Lamberson, for bringing this warm literary tradition to these pages in December of 2019 our first Christmas issue, and thank you to the Norman Transcript for keeping it alive for so many years. We here at Caregiver Magazine are wishing you all a very, Merry Christmas!
A preschool version of the Christmas Story, complete with more than a few last minute improvisations, unfolded before a delighted audience at the First Presbyterian Church Sunday night.
The pageant of the Nativity, presented by members of the Cherub and Chapel choirs, in general had proceeded well at dress rehearsal. Mary, Joseph, the shepherds, wise men and other 4 and 5-year-olds in the cast had run more or less smoothly through their assigned parts. The Chapel Choir and a narrator provided the background, and
except for minor entanglements with flowing robes and headdresses, few problems were encountered. Then the Big Night arrived.
The first hint of trouble came even before the formal action opened when one of the younger members of the Cherub Choir, a boy of about 2, took a fancy to the doll representing the infant Jesus lying in the manger. Clambering on stage he made a beeline for the crib and was diverted from his goal only by the action of an alert father.
The innkeeper, exhibiting a lively proprietary interest in the stable, practiced leaping about the freshly strewn hay until the arrival of Mary and Joseph, whom he escorted proudly to seats beside the crib. The shepherds and white-robed angels arrived soon after. And it was then that the young Cherub, perhaps encouraged by his part as one of the children come to adore the Christ child, decided on another try for the object of his affections in the manger.
He squeezed his way through the crowd, grabbed the doll and lifted it from the crib. Mary, reacting like any mother, made a lunge for the swaddling clothes, and a tug of war ensued above the manger.
Joseph, stunned for a moment, gallantly came to Mary’s aid with a swing at the intruder. And the innkeeper, proving not a bad sort after all, picked up a handful of hay and threw it at the would be abductor.
The arrival of the harried father, towering some three feet above the rest of the cast, restored peace momentarily.
But it was the hay, omitted during dress rehearsal, that caused the eventual downfall. Piled liberally about the tiled floor, it proved a lumpy and slippery footing. One of the shepherds, head bowed above the manger, suddenly went down. He scrambled up and immediately plopped down again.
The third time he fell he grabbed the innkeeper; the innkeeper bumped an angel and half the cast toppled like a row of dominoes.
But the hay proved a soft cushion — fun to dive into, in fact. Soon the shepherd and innkeeper were competing in swan dives into the straw. A wise man scuffled with an angel whose gilded wings had slipped considerably below their proper place.
The Cherub, once more eluding his father, tried unsuccessfully to wrest a crook away from one of the shepherds.
The narrator and choir, unfazed by the commotion, continued like troupers to the end; the cast was enticed offstage and peace once more returned to the somewhat disarranged stable.
One spectator, his voice still trembling with laughter, was heard to remark as he left the church,“I’m glad I read the Book, ’cause they sure changed the plot!”
Volunteering is often a lifeline for the volunteer. How do we maximize and grow the volunteer base to meet the needs of an organization? That is the mission of RSVP (Retired Senior Volunteer Program). After COVID, RSVP found the volunteer base for senior drivers and the number of seniors calling for assistance dwindling.
Volunteers may give seniors and visually impaired people rides through our community partner
agency, ITN Central Oklahoma. The organization focused on utilizing the talent pool of current volunteers and increased recruitment of new volunteers. RSVP volunteers logged 53,272 hours in 2023. Volunteer hours were valued at $33.49 per hour in 2023.
RSVP staff reviews volunteer applications. The staff meets with each volunteer to assess their skills, passions, and vision for serving the community’s needs. The volunteer is then matched with opportunities to serve in local partner
non-profits. Volunteers impact local neighborhoods in terms of stewardship, economic opportunity, capacity building, disaster services, veterans and military services, health, education, and other community priorities.
RSVP volunteers and staff learn about gardening and seed starting in workshops and volunteer and work in the Skyline community garden. Another group of volunteers knits and crochets items such as baby hats, car seat blankets, and dish towels. The items they make are given to those in need through various organizations and agencies. There is a direct correlation between volunteering and mental health.
The U.S. Surgeon General, Dr. Vivek Murthy, issued an advisory on social connections, which mentions several benefits of volunteering. Those who volunteer are connected to their communities through service. The well-being benefits are greater for those with higher social connectedness. The more an individual interacts with others, the better the chances of mental stability and physical well-being.
Are you self-isolating? Do you go days without interacting with others? Are you lonely? Depressed? Well, apply to RSVP to volunteer. You can isolate and despair or be of
service and help your community and yourself. Take action now. Utilize the talents gained from your years of experience. Help other volunteers identify their talents and expertise. Giving back to the community will energize you and enhance your well-being. It is never too late to try something new and enhance your skill set.
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magazine. I’m so grateful for the opportunity you offer your readership to learn about the myriad benefits of volunteering and connection in people’s lives. We believe so strongly that not only are these things critical in creating a positive aging experience, but they also help strengthen the fabric of our community and create an empowering and inspiring new picture of what it means to be an “older adult.” It’s a win, win, win scenario, and It means so much to us that you’re willing to help spread the word!” We know smiles, laughter, and joy are contagious; choose to share yours with others.
To become a volunteer and give back to your community through RSVP volunteer placement, call 405-605-3110 or go online: rsvpokc.org. Complete the application and start the next chapter of your life.
We are fully into the holiday season, which means more shopping and parties, more distractions and commitments, and more family and friends gathering to celebrate. So, take a few extra seconds to ensure your safety and protect your financial accounts.
First, when taking pictures and posting on social media, be extra diligent about the information you may inadvertently reveal. What is in the background of your photos? Expensive items inside your home? Vehicles and car tags? Home addresses? Also, ensure your GPS location is not embedded into your pictures, as you may unintentionally reveal someone’s address. And
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think about the information in your post. Posts like “had a good time at Grandma’s” indicate there is probably no Grandpa around.
Second, pair down what you carry with you – that goes for both the ladies and the gentlemen. All you really need in your wallet is your ID, 1 or 2 credit cards, and a little cash. You should never carry with you extra credit cards, social security card, Medicare card, or checks. These should all remain at home in a secure location. Ladies, most of what is in your purse can remain in the car as you won’t actually need it while you are shopping/eating, etc. If you must carry a purse, remember that a cross-body is the most dangerous for you physically, as a thief grabbing it will drag you to the ground, resulting in a struggle. As we age, this type of altercation can be difficult, if not impossible, to recover from. It’s best to pair down to absolute essentials.
Speaking of credit cards, beware of skimmers when doing extra shopping. Always utilize tap-to-pay if available and avoid putting your card into a machine to avoid the skimmers (this does not apply if traveling abroad). This goes for gas pumps, ATMs, and pointof-sale machines. And if the tap-to-pay is “broken,” be incredibly skeptical of that machine.
If you will be mailing monetary gifts to loved ones, do not do so in the form of a check. You would never give your address and checking account number to a criminal, yet that is potentially exactly what you are
doing when you put a check in the mail or the retail system. Instead, opt for a gift card; digital gift cards are best. If you purchase a gift card at the store, examine it closely before adding money to it. You should be able to view the fullness of the card and ensure the silver coating on the numbers is intact. If it has been scratched off, or you can easily scratch it with your fingernail, it has already been compromised, and any money you add to it will be electronically stolen, leaving you with nothing more than a piece of plastic as a gift. If you receive a digital gift card, call the sender and verify its authenticity before downloading it, as you will be essentially clicking on a link.
Lastly, remember gift cards are for giving and receiving gifts only! No legitimate business or government agency will ever ask for payment using gift cards. The same is true for crypto-currency. It is undoubtedly a scam if you are ever instructed to utilize either of these as payment methods!
For more information on our free monthly class schedule, please email me at tara.hardin@ Oklahomcounty.org or call my office at 405-713-1086. You can also register for online classes at www.metrotech.edu/crimeprevention.
Our Quick Response Team defines a care model you won’t find with any other hospice. It’s comprised of five shifts of ON STAFF nurses and aides, not on call, in addition to our regular 9 to 5 daytime shift. That’s how Crossroads can go above and beyond to meet our patients’ needs, whether it’s 2 AM on a weekday or any time during weekends or holidays.
If a patient displays a noticeable decline, we increase our care to include multiple daily visits to closely monitor the patient’s condition.
When we identify that a patient’s passing is imminent, we exhaust every effort to stay by their side. Crossroads’ staff share this responsibility to ensure we are there when the patient and family need us most. This is why Crossroads significantly exceeds the national average for Attended Deaths.
We offer a special program to honor our Veteran patients who have served in the United States armed forces. Veterans receive a Certificate of Appreciation during a pinning ceremony that acknowledges their service.
By Larry Stein, Oklahoma County Assessor
People in communities across the country are living life to its fullest thanks to our more caring approach to primary care for adults age 60+. With centers conveniently located right in your neighborhood, it’s never been easier to make regular wellness visits and preventive care part of your routine.
Save on property taxes with the NEW INCREASED INCOME LEVEL of $89,500 to qualify for the Senior Assessment Freeze. That’s a more than 20 percent increase over the past few years to adjust for inflation. Oklahoma residents have saved Billions of dollars in lower property taxes since the exemptions have become law.
The key is qualifying for a Homestead Exemption, declaring you own and live on the property as your primary residence. The Homestead Application must be filed from January 1 through March 15th. With a Homestead Exemption, the senior valuation freeze, additional homestead exemption, or the 100% disabled American Veteran exemption can result in substantial property tax savings for those who are eligible.
Property assessments in Oklahoma County are based on the fair market value of the property set on January 1st of each year. In the last 40 years, those values have increased nearly 1,000 percent. Property values can fluctuate due to natural disasters, changes in the local real estate market, and improvements or additions to the property.
The property assessment directly impacts how much you’ll pay in property taxes along with other factors such as; Rising Property Values: In many parts of Oklahoma, property values have been on the rise, particularly in urban areas like Oklahoma City. If property values continue to increase, assessments may reflect these higher values, leading to higher property tax bills.
New Construction or Improvements: Adding to or upgrading your property could increase its assessed value. Before making significant property renovations, check with your county assessor’s office about how those changes may impact your taxes.
Changes in Local Tax Rates: County and city governments often adjust millage rates, which can either increase or decrease your property tax burden. Property owners should keep an eye on local bond elections and budget decisions that could lead to changes in property tax rates. Check your property value on the website www. oklahomacounty.org/assessor for 2025 and carefully review it. If you believe your property has been overvalued, you have the right to appeal the assessment through your county assessor’s office by phone, online, or in person.
Oklahoma lawmakers regularly consider changes to tax policies. I am currently proposing legislation streamlining assessor operations and providing additional property tax relief for low-income homeowners and property tax rebates for disabled civilian and military vets.
As 2025 approaches, understanding your property’s assessment and tax situation can help you avoid surprises and potentially reduce your property tax burden. If you have a group in Oklahoma County that could benefit from a presentation by Assessor Stein, contact the office at 405-713-1213 or email me at arlarste@oklahomacounty. org to get your group on my schedule.
By Danna Szymanski, Oklahoma County Master Gardener
Preparing your landscape and container plants for winter in Oklahoma involves taking proactive steps to protect them from the region’s often harsh and unpredictable winter weather.
Oklahoma winters can bring freezing temperatures, ice, snow, and strong winds, all of which can stress or damage plants. Here’s a guide to ensure your plants survive and thrive in the colder months.
Before winter sets in, clean up any fallen leaves, dead plants, or diseased material from around your plants. This helps prevent disease, mold, and insect infestations from taking hold. Avoid heavy pruning on most perennials and shrubs in the fall, as it can encourage new growth that will be vulnerable to winter damage. Instead, focus on cutting back any dead or dying branches and removing spent flowers. For springflowering shrubs, wait until after their bloom period in spring to prune.
Mulching is essential to insulate plant roots from temperature fluctuations. In Oklahoma, where temperatures can vary significantly, applying a 2-4 inch
layer of mulch around the base of perennials, shrubs, and trees helps keep the soil temperature more stable. “The finer textured the mulch, the thinner the layer required,” says Mike Schnelle, Extension Horticulture Specialist with OSU. For example, one or two inches of sawdust will insulate as much as four or five inches of hay or straw. Leaves should not be used unless they have been shredded or composted. Organic mulch, such as shredded leaves, straw, or wood chips, also improves soil quality as it decomposes. Just be careful not to pile mulch directly against plant stems or trunks, as this can encourage rot and pest problems.
Plants, especially newly planted trees and shrubs, need water before the ground freezes. Deep watering helps plants go into winter with sufficient moisture and supports root development, which is crucial for surviving winter stress. Oklahoma’s dry winter air can dehydrate, so monitor soil moisture and water when conditions allow if the winter remains dry.
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To protect container plants, move them to a sheltered location, such as a covered porch or near a south-facing wall, to benefit from additional warmth and protection. Insulating containers with bubble wrap or burlap can also help. According to David Hillock, Extension Horticulture Specialist with OSU, walls facing west reflect heat, which can cause plants to be damaged by daily freezing and thawing. However, plants growing in the shadow of north walls may be damaged less because they thaw more slowly. Winterize Irrigation Systems and Tools
Drain and shut off irrigation systems to prevent freezing and bursting pipes. Drain hoses and store them indoors to prolong their lifespan. If you have outdoor faucets, turn them off at the source and drain any remaining water. Also, clean and store your gardening tools to prevent rust and make them easier to use when spring arrives.
Applying a layer of compost or well-rotted manure in late fall can improve soil quality over winter, enriching it for spring planting. Adding organic matter helps the soil retain moisture and provides slow-release nutrients as it breaks down.
Winterizing your vegetable garden is essential to keep the soil healthy and ready for spring planting. Start by removing any dead or dying plants and discarding or composting healthy plant material. Turn the soil to aerate it, breaking up clumps and removing any weeds that may have started. Adding a layer of compost or mulch over the garden bed will protect the soil from erosion and improve nutrient levels for the next planting season. Also, consider planting a winter cover crop, like rye or clover, which can be tilled into the soil in spring to enhance fertility. Cover crops help prevent erosion, suppress weeds, and add organic matter back into the soil when turned over.
Heavy snowfall and ice can damage branches on trees and shrubs. Gently brush snow off plants to avoid bending or breaking branches. For ice, it’s usually best to let it melt naturally, as trying to remove it can cause more harm than good. Avoid using salt-based deicers near your plants, as they can damage the soil and harm roots.
By following these steps, you can help your landscape, container, and vegetable plants survive the winter and thrive when spring arrives. Preparing for winter not only protects your plants but also makes spring gardening easier, as your plants will start the season healthier and ready to grow.
For more information contact the OSU Extension Center at 405-713-1125 or visit: extension.okstate.edu/
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Joe will give you an assessment of your property, making suggestions for improving salability.
Joe provides insight on current market conditions, then develops a pricing and marketing strategy to sell your property quickly for the highest possible price.
Joe can help assemble an expert team to ease the transition. Movers, landscapers, interior designers and stagers handle the heavy lifting. Attorneys, 1031 exchange specialists and mortgage bankers manage the heavy paperwork.
“Joe is professional and extremely friendly He put the place on the market on Monday (a holiday) and by Wednesday, he had a contract! We were kept in the loop and all questions answered and information shared ASAP by Joe.” - John
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Provides health, recreational, social and supportive services to impaired adults for more than four hours per day. Participants do not stay in the center overnight. Adult Day Care Act - November 1, 1989 Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health VA allows respite benefits Medicaid Option through DHS (Advantage Waiver)
Combines the services of a nursing facility with an assisted living center or an adult day care center. It is licensed under the Continuum of Care and Assisted Living Act and must also meet requirements applicable to nursing facilities, assisted living centers and adult day care centers. Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health Currently inOklahoma, all Continuum of Care’s only have assisted livings. Medicaid Option through DHS (Advantage Waiver) for Assisted Living and Adult Day Care.
Apartments, cottages, and single-family homes for seniors 55 & over who do not require assistance with daily activities or 24/7 skilled nursing but may benefit from convenient services, senior-friendly surround-ings, and increased social opportunities. NOT Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health. No oversight since they are not licensed. May have “High Acuity” that is receiving Home Health and or Hospice services.
A nursing facility that provides 24-hour skilled nursing care and related services for residents who require medical or nursing care. Nursing Home Care Act - October 1, 1980. Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health. Nursing homes provide the highest level of care. Options for Medicare/Medicaid
Created in 2013, this program is for residents who are veterans living in the state veteran’s centers. They are licensed as a nursing facility and can provide 24-hour skilled nursing care and related services for residents who require medical or nursing care . Falls under Nursing Home Care Act - May 29, 2013. Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health
Provide residential accommodations, food service, and supportive assistance. May also provide assistance with meals, dressing, bathing, other personal needs, and medication administration. Cannot provide medical care such as skilled nursing. Residential Care Act - November 1, 1984 Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health A typical residential care resident is younger than other long term care options and only requires assistant with medication administration. NO Options for Medicare/Medicaid
Help is finally here for Oklahomans who provide care for their parents, spouses, and other loved ones. The Caring for Caregivers Act, which took effect January 1, gives eligible caregivers a tax credit for out-of-pocket costs directly related to providing care.
Now family caregivers in Oklahoma can get up to $2,000 in tax credit for money they spend on things like transportation and durable medical equipment. And as much as $3,000 a year if they’re caring for a veteran or someone with dementia.
Learn about this important new tax credit at aarp.org/OKCaregiverTaxCredit
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